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What’s All the Fuss About Life Coaching?

Dec 4th, 2009 by newmoney

Coaching in all it’s different forms- life, business, career- originates out of the field of Sports Coaching. In 1974 Timothy Gallwey wrote a book titled The Inner Game of Tennis which wasn’t so much about tennis but about the inner qualities of the tennis player which drive him to win. In sport and in life there are two opponents; the other player, and the self (self referred to here as our own beliefs and self talk about what we are capable of). The tennis player, and the player of life, has to compete with both. Through this book people began to understand that as human beings, our level of achievement in anything be it tennis, business, wealth, or happiness, is in direct proportion to what we really think of ourselves deep down. And so personal coaching for the mind was born and is now used throughout the world to bring out the best in individuals and corporations, and unleash the human potential for excellence. The thing to note about Life Coaching is that it is coaching to enhance your personal qualities, not directing or teaching of someone else’s ideas. A good sports coach doesn’t say to his pupil ‘No that’s not how you do it, here let me show you!’, and goes on to try and mould the student to be like him. Instead he identifies and maximizes the pupil’s unique strengths, and helps them transform any weaknesses into positives. He ‘coaches’ them on improving their own style of playing the game so that they are functioning at their ultimate best. Similarly Life Coaching is not about telling you how you should be living your life. No coach will claim to be a life expert and if they do they are coaches to be avoided. Sure, Life Coaches are highly trained in human behaviour and will usually achieve great results in their own style of living, but the only expert in your life is you. As does the sports coach, the life coach will help you tap into your strengths while turning the tables on any weaknesses so that every aspect of your unique game of life is being controlled by you. Coaching is increasingly used in companies to maximize and develop their best people. It’s not the systems that make a company powerful and continually reaching its targets, it’s the people that make up the company, the puzzle pieces that make up the whole. Systems are great to keep the company operating smoothly however without people working at their most efficient that’s all the company will do- operate smoothly. Coaching, all the way from the executives to the most junior employee, will bring out the best in people and create powerful results. You may have noticed that all top athletes have a coach. They are at the top because their coach pushes the forward and supports them in staying there. All entrepreneurs have a coach, keeping them on a clear path to increased success in their chosen ventures. Most coaches have a coach! Because to bring out the best in others we must be constantly striving to better ourselves. Coaching using NLP (the study of human excellence and how to replicate it in others) is the way of the future. It is the fastest way to achieve anything from overcoming a current challenge in your life, to realizing your biggest goals and dreams. Find the coach that best suits your goals, who gives you the level of support you need, and who is genuinely committed to their craft; and you will find passion and purpose within you that you never knew existed. This new power that is unleashed from within you, your true human potential, allows you to function at a higher level mentally, physically, spiritually, financially, in every area of your life. And the changes are, without a doubt, deep and lasting. Here are a couple of motivational quotes to get you started on your journey: ‘It has been my observation that most people get ahead during the time that others waste time.’ – Henry Ford ‘Success is not for the timid. It is for those who seek guidance, make decisions, and take decisive action.’ – Jose Silva ‘If you don’t act now while it’s fresh in your mind, it will probably join the list of things you were always going to do but never quite got around to.’ – Paul Clithero Joanna Sherwell, a qualified Life Coach and NLP Practitioner, is Head Coach of Untapped Potential Coaching & Development in Melbourne, Australia. She is passionate about assisting you to unleash your true potential, fulfill your goals dreams, and live the life you deserve. Visit http://www.untappedpotential.com.au to find out more.Wordpress Autoblog Software

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Will Everyone Have A Life Coach In The Future?

Dec 3rd, 2009 by newmoney

Personal development has become so popular. It was only a decade ago, that people never heard of personal development. And life coaches? The only coach most people knew was the one for the favorite sport team. In this article, we will look at life coaching, and the trends towards to future.
When we look at personal development, self improvement, and life coaching, we find they fit together. A life coach generally deals with a system of improving the individual, so they can change the results.
You see, most people don’t think with that expanded view. Instead we are taught that we need to work harder to make better results. However, that is old thinking, and it looks like the world is waking up.
If we look at the personal development films around today, we see The Secret and many other films which would have been unheard of a decade or two ago. This has made a major shift in how people go through life.
More and more people are learning the benefits of personal development. The internet has supported this also. A few years ago, getting access to this great free information would have been unheard of. You may have had a magazine or two, and books, but those weren’t as accessible as going to Google and finding that information.
This has made more high achievers to look for life coaches online. And the life coaches have had a hard time finding unique individuals like you who wants to get more out of life – both professionally and personally.
This fusion has all come together to create a new industry of life coaches. And the trends speak for themselves. As more people want to get ahead in a competitive world, they need a life coach.
As the internet allows a life coach to easily gain access to those high achievers, they don’t have to charge expensive fees to cover traveling costs, and also they don’t have to have as big a marketing budget to get a client. This works best for you, and the life coach, creating a win-win situation.
Some of those in personal development are looking at a route to become a life coach. You perhaps may be in such a position yourself. And the life coaching industry now has more and more life coach certification and life coaching training that is making it easy to get into life coaching, and start your own practice.
The end result of life coaching is its impact. And the impact that life coaching can do is immense. It allows people to learn at a much faster rate. You don’t have to be stuck in a formal learning method, but can simply get help in the areas you need, and find the solutions you need now. You don’t have to be rich to find a life coach! Visit find a life coach in. You may also want to check out an amazing formula that works: goal setting.WP Autoblog Plugin

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Stop Reading Self-Help Books!

Dec 3rd, 2009 by newmoney

Copyright (c) 2009 Willie Horton I am forever being contacted by clients recommending a variety of self-help books. And, yet, a client recently mentioned to me that he had been on a workshop where another participant told him to “Stop reading the books – and start living it!” The truth is, that you will only find true wisdom within. You will only find your true potential within. You don’t have to read others’ experiences or exhortations – you have to, at some point, sooner or later, start walking the talk – you’ve got to do it for yourself. Many – or most – of the self-help books available on the market talk about our inner power, our innate ability to unleash the “giant within”. However, continually reading books will not do it for you – books contain other people’s wisdom, other people’s experience, other people’s journeys. You’ve got to take your own journey. And that journey starts in this very moment – it doesn’t start with a New Year’s Resolution, with some future commitment. In this very moment, you have, entirely within your own power, the ability to start truly living – way beyond what so-called “normal” people take for living. You see, “normal” people don’t live – they exist in a pseudo-world of automatic reactive behaviour, based on what they internalised when they were young and impressionable. In our formative years, we “learned” how the world works, what was possible and impossible, who we are and what our place is in this world of ours. Research indicates that little (or nothing) of what we learned approximates to the truth of what you and I can really achieve. Research indicates that we were socialised or normalised, that we live to a set of norms that confine us into an existence which sells us far short of all that we could actually and otherwise be. The same research indicates that those who follow the norms are predisposed to being negative, believing the negative and mindlessly accepting that life is the way the vast majority of people believe it to be – a struggle, where you have to work hard to be a success, where nothing comes easily, where you live and die on the same set of rails that have been previously travelled by all the other normal people. Of course, if you buy into that nonsense, that is how your life will turn out – because we all create, through our subconscious beliefs, our very own self-fulfilling prophecies. Time to wake up from the nightmare! Time to realise that you have, within your very own self, the innate ability to be all that you can be. Time to realise that you can create the life that you really, really want because, in the day to day of your current everyday life, you are already creating the life that you expect – it’s just that normal people live down to their expectations. Decades of research prove conclusively that we experience what we expect to experience, that we perceive what we expect to perceive, that we live the lives we expect to live. Unfortunately, we are surrounded by normality and find it hard to break free. Sure, we might like to read about it, might like to dream about it, but most people will die without having realized their wildest dreams, without having realized what normal people perceive as unrealistic ambitions. These dreams are only wild or unrealistic because they don’t conform to the norms expected of normal people. These dreams and ambitions are yours for the living if you start using your mind abnormally – the way extraordinarily successful people use their minds. The only difference between you and people like Bill Gates, Muhammad Ali, Donald Trump, Mahatma Gandhi and all the rest is that those guys refused to accept the norm. You can turn your back on the drudgery of normal too by changing your state of mind. Normal people’s minds are in an awful state – one bombarded by 50,000 random thoughts each day, one where their subconscious constantly focused on what was learned during their formative years – a past long gone. As I said earlier, now is the moment in which you can change everything. Now is the moment in which you can start living exceptionally. There’s no time like the present. Indeed, now is the only time and place you or I have – doesn’t it make sense that we make the very most we can of the here and now. This is done by turning your mind’s attention away from the nonsense that is pulling the normal world over your eyes. This is done by developing – or re-developing, because we could all do it as children, before we became normal adults – your innate, natural ability to invest your precious energy in the present moment. If you invest your energy in now, you will be more present than the normal person. You will have what normal people call “presence” – the kind of presence and influence that the people I mentioned earlier on have exercised in their lives. You invest your energy in the present by paying more attention to the here and now. You are blessed in that you have, at your disposal, five senses with which you can actively engage to experience the wonder of what is going on now – not what normal people think is going on – but what is actually happening. You might just find that, in doing so, you’ll find that all the opportunities you need to achieve effortless success are before your very eyes. Open them. Willie Horton’s acclaimed two-day personal development seminars have been running for thirteen years. He teaches that a clear and present state of mind creates extra-ordinary personal and business success. His vast expertise is now available in his Online Workshop at Gurdy.Net. His website also offers daily free personal development video seminars, articles and a Free Personal Development Ezine published every Monday morning.Solar Panel

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Why Become A Life Coach?

Dec 1st, 2009 by newmoney

The life coaching profession has become increasingly popular. If you have thought about becoming a life coach, then read this article. We will be going into detail at why become a life coach, and the benefits of becoming a life coach.
There are many reasons in wanting to become a life coach. The biggest reason that people want to become life coaches, is that they can serve. These people have generally had life experiences which were trying times. They have now gone on to help others with solutions to the difficulties others are facing.
There is nothing like the fulfillment of having gone through trying times, and having got on the top of it all. What’s more, for life coaches, those experiences are valuable. I once remember hearing a question posed. Would not all your life experiences and what you learned be worth $10,000?
Imagine having gone through years of struggle, and utilizing that information to help others who are in those similar problems. There is nothing like helping others find solutions much quicker and without the tears, heartache, and late nights that those problems caused us.
We can see that fulfillment is a major concern for life coaches, and what they get out of it. This is why people become life coaches, it is in my case, however, there are also other reasons that people become life coaches. Some become one, because they have been into personal development for years, and it seems like a natural progression.
Money is another aspect of why to become a life coach. It is true that some life coaches can see $1,000,000 in fees from one client. However, this is not precedent, and is not something that all will be able to achieve. However, life coaching can produce amazing results in the financial sector. Not to mention that the knowledge you gain from experiences, will further help you create wealth on the long term.
Some seek fame, and seeing those top life coaches today, seems as though they are famous. With thousands, tens of thousands, even millions of dedicated students, some life coaches have achieved fame and fortune by being a life coach. If you seek fame and wonder why become a life coach, then this route is a possibility, and it has to be easier than becoming a movie star or singer.
One of the biggest benefits of why you would want to become a life coach is the legacy factor. You are reading this article today, and though you may not remember me or my name in coming days, and even years; the information in this article may help you and many others for years after I have transitioned from this world.
Another reason why you would want to become a life coach is that of networking. Coaching gives us so much opportunity to network and meet some great high achievers. So, if you like meeting new people, and having a long list of friends and acquaintances, life coaching may just be a career destination to think about. You don’t need to be on the Forbes 400 to find a life coach! Visit this find a life coach link to find a life coach or visit this link to discover more about goal setting. www.businesstobusinessportal.infoswarovski rhinestones

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Is It Better To Have A Life Coach Or Be Your Own Life Coach?

Nov 30th, 2009 by newmoney

The life coaching industry seems to be growing at a fast rate. It was only a few years ago, that finding a life coach was a difficult task. Today, it is much easier. If you have been wondering about finding a life coach, you may also have thought about being your own life coach, you may even be your own coach right now. So, which option is best?
What is a life coach? The simplest definition I can give you is a walking encyclopedia! They literally have answers. But, whereas a book worm is someone who simply has the theoretical the life coach who is actively practicing is someone who has the practical, and not just the theory, and here is where they can benefit you.
There are a number of choices when looking to find solutions to your problems. For example, if you need to increase income – a book may help, life coaching may help, a seminar can also help.
But, how many people like trying to find something in a book? You likely have to go to the index, and then flick through to find the page, then the section with the information. Trying to learn something, so you can apply it, can take time.
Wouldn’t it be great to get an immediate answer? This is where life coaching can help. Because your life coach, likely knows the answer. You don’t need to read a book; you don’t need to invest years applying to know the solutions, because the life coach already has the answer.
From the last few points, you should have an idea of whether you really need a life coach or not. For some people, learning and applying is the fun part. So, being your own life coach can be a great idea. And it is personal development, and personal growth that can last a lifetime.
It can be beneficial to go with both options, and we see it all the time. Life coaches have their own life coaches. Business people and high achievers are their own life coaches, yet still have a life coach who also helps.
Most people will usually find that they will go with both options. Some may use more of a life coaches help, while some will choose to go through mostly their own personal development, through books, etc.
There is a big factor which comes into what choice you make, and that is your own ability to get up and go. If you are a self starter, then this can be great, as you can literally start on projects and act on them.
For people who can’t get up and go, and need motivation, a life coach can be a great way to have that accountability, where we feel compelled to act. In either case, both options are a great way to find the solutions to your problems, and reach your goals. Sometimes learning where to see those opportunities for abundance can be difficult. Visit goal setter to learn about a great system for achieving your best.
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Getting More Out Of Life With Life Coaching

Nov 28th, 2009 by newmoney

Are you a goal setter? Are you a self starter? Do you feel geared for success? In life we find that coaches are present wherever there is high performance. From business men and woman to actors and actresses, and even athletes, they all rely on coaching. As you read this article, you will discover how life coaching can transform your life for the better.
The question is why do performance people keep performing ever better? We see Olympic athletes have coaches, and we see business people in the world’s largest corporations have life coaches.
Could continued success be down to having a life coach? It seems obvious, and it could be making an imprint that a life coach really could make a difference. But, how exactly could a life coach help you?
If you are like me, you are a goal setter. You set goals, and work about achieving them. You succeed, and now it is time for new goals. It seems like a basic process, and I guess it is. However, in practice it can seem a little more difficult.
We can say a day happens in 24 hours. But, life is not so simple. When you are stuck in the middle of achieving a goal, and problems present themselves, it can be hard to find direction, and achieve the success you seek.
Sometimes the goal takes longer than we anticipated. Luckily a life coach can really be our greatest asset at these times. These people not only have a strong personal experience of situations, they also have the added advantage of having a broader knowledge of situations, through coaching other people.
This third point view can be invaluable in practice, and can result in bigger breakthroughs. The time to achievement can be reduced also, and success can be felt sooner. As the life coach offers there advice, it offers a different point of view.
As you progress you will find that you can achieve so much more. And as life coaching deals with not only a certain area, but as a coach in life, they can generally help you with several areas of your life.
This is a big bonus; though many life coaches will specialize in a certain field. And here is where you will need to look at your needs before looking to find a life coach. There are many life coaches, and you want to get the best life coach for your needs.
Researching several life coaches is the best option, and considering that many will offer some free information or a free consultation, you can easily find the best life coach that will help you not only achieve more of that latent potential, but also achieve your best. Visit these links to find a life coach. And if you aspire to become a life coach visit this link. More personal development information can be found at this personal development link.Product Review

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Self Help – How To Achieve Success In Life

Nov 23rd, 2009 by newmoney

Success is within the reach of all of us, but most of us are not able to fully enjoy the fruits of hard work. Some do not realize their full potential and settle for what life has given them. Success is the companion of those who do not settle for less but always dream to achieve the highest. Self help can be instrumental for achieving success and help you lift yourself from the survival to success stage. All you have to do is help yourself in pursuing your goals and achieving your targets. The first step in self help on how to achieve success is setting your goals and targets. You can attain a far greater degree of success if you have a set target and goal to achieve. Setting out a target and taking steps or actions towards your goal will make you come closer and closer to your goal every time you take a step towards it. Each of your action will result in your progress towards your goal. Gaining knowledge about your field of activity will make you more and more confident. You should make it a point to gain some knowledge about your field everyday. Studying all publications about the field and interacting with other people in the same subject and exchanging ideas with them will help you gain more and more knowledge about the field. Knowledge and success are directly linked with each other and if you have knowledge about your field there are rare chances that you can be cheated or fail in your attempts for success. Another major tip of self help in achieving success is to learn from your failed attempts. If you fail in any of your attempts it is not wise to quit making attempts, rather you should make failure your learning ground and analyze what went wrong. Try to correct your mistake and take another attempt and you will find that you are one step closer to your target. Examining your thoughts and raising your thinking on the positive side of an aspect is an important aspect of self help for gaining success. Negative thoughts blow things way out of proportion and make you lose your confidence. Keeping away from negative thoughts and lifting your thinking towards the positive side of each aspect help you leap towards your goal. Take charge of your attitude and do no allow yourself to be carried away with negative vibes. Positive thoughts are said to be productive and lead to success and attaining your goals. Thinking about positive things will help you lift your spirits and gain rewards for you. Doing what you love to do is a stepping stone for your success. If you are doing something which does not interest you, you may not be able to put in all your heart and spirit into your work and thus may not be able to achieve maximum benefits. Chances of being successful are far more in case you are doing something that you love. Living life to your fullest at the current moment is the best self help tip for achieving success. Living in present by worrying for the future and regretting the past will do no good to you. You should live for the present and try to enjoy every moment that you have. Take time out for your family and friends and have fun in your life. Count your blessings and do not brood over your failures or shortcomings. Learn to enjoy your success but do not regret your failures, rather make it a learning ground and stepping stone for your success. You can have access to articles about self help in portuguese language from page Self_Help

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Why Self Help Books Fail

Nov 21st, 2009 by newmoney

If you are reading this you’re probably one of those people with a number of self help books that are currently accumulating dust in your bookshelf and self help ebooks that are filling up your computers memory, or you’re just curious of what I have to say. Either way I know you will agree with me.

First of, I’m not gonna claim to be an expert in this particular field because I am not, in fact I need help as well, badly.

I’ve read a number of self help books myself and those books that are accumulating dust in your bookshelf, I am sure you have read them too. You were inspired by them, you were moved by them, it even got you teary eyed at some point! But the question is, “why are you still the same old you?” If these books are so helpful, why are you still struggling? Makes sense right?

Now, let’s take a look at how we call these books. “Self Help” and let’s write that in reverse “Help Self” Wow! Now does that mean that I have to do something after reading the book? If these books are so powerful, I should be a changed man after reading them from cover to cover, right?

Wrong! Let me tell you something I found out about these books. First of all they are great and I like to thank all the people who wrote them and shared their experiences with us. But I tell you, not unless you have the determination and drive to make your life better everything in those books will be fictitious to YOU. Yes, It all goes down to “you” all the inspiration and all the knowledge you gained will all be wasted if you do not put them to use. They will be accumulating dust in your brains just like the books in your bookshelf. And you will still be living the same old life that you were trying to change or make better in the first place.

Now, let me ask you a question. “Do you really want to make your life better?” If your answer is no then stop reading and find yourself another article coz you are wasting your time my friend, If yes then do this! Let us do it together ok? I told you I need help too so I am doing this with you.

I want you to close your eyes and start looking at yourself. Assess yourself and think of the things that you are currently doing right now, once you have them, classify them into.

“Things that are greatly contributing to my life” and

“Things that are contributing less or things that are completely just wasting my time”.

And then concentrate on doing more of the things that are greatly contributing to your life and less of or totally eliminating those activities that does not. And then, make another list of the things that you know you should be doing to achieve more in your life like starting a business or getting a masters degree or just plainly looking for work and make an outline on how you plan to achieve these things. Make yourself a goal!

Come on, get a pen and paper and write down your goals. The achievable goals and the impossible goals! I wrote down mine just before I wrote this article. Write down how you plan to achieve these goals and share it to your family and friends so you’ll get all the support you need and everyday make an assessment of close you are in achieving your goals and ask yourself.

“What did I do today that contributed to my goal?” and shame on you if there is none.

Remember you have to stay focused, you have to have the perseverance and discipline so as not to stray from your goals, just think of the rewards that you will get once you’re there up top with everything that you could ever dream of.

So, lets stop reading and start making things happen! Ok? I know I’m gonna do it. I’m gonna write another article in the future sharing my success!

And I’ll be looking out for yours too.

Good Luck! A working class citizen who’s always looking for ways to improve life…and shares it to everybody.
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Self Help: the Bottom-line For All Success and Achievement is Your BELIEFS

Nov 21st, 2009 by newmoney

Do you agree with what the greatest Self-Help Success author of all time Napoleon Hill (author of Think & Grow Rich) said, “Whatever the mind can conceive and believe it will achieve”?
I’ve learned– often the hard ways– that what your mind believes you will ALWAYS achieve: Good, bad or indifferent. Unless and until something comes along to “change your mind.”
Your beliefs create your paradigm of life– the way it is, whatever the “it” is we’re talking about. There are paradigms for every domain of life and work.
A paradigm is your belief about the way it is. It’s your “worldview” of the matter no matter what’s the matter.
A classic example of a marketplace paradigm (worldview, belief) is the wristwatch: Until the 1970s, geared timepieces– the “Swiss watch”– were the dominant paradigm; jeweled movements, mainsprings, winding mechanisms (think Rolex). With the development of cheap semi-conductors and wafer thin batteries, the quartz watch (think Seiko)– with its greater accuracy and low price– became the new paradigm of wristwatches.
In a more a human arena, a paradigm is the underlying belief we are operating from.
Our beliefs are habits of thought– those things we think about a given subject most consistently and frequently and for the longest time– and the associated feelings that come with those thoughts. Beliefs and memories are the same thing. A memory becomes a belief the more often it’s recalled and the more powerfully we infuse it with our emotional energy.
One important thing to know about our beliefs and memories is they are NOT the truth. They are always our interpretations of events in the past. Just like six eye-witnesses to the same street crime will describe six different sets of details… or at various stages and ages in our lives we remember the exact same incident very differently.
Our memories and beliefs– our paradigms– are NOT real. We MAKE THEM UP.
And they can change in an instant when new, more compelling information becomes available.
The following is a true story told by Frank Koch, which appeared in an issue of Proceedings, the magazine of the United States Naval Institute. It dramatically illustrates how one simple, yet profound new bit of information completely changed a very big paradigm 180 degrees in an instant.
As background, let me explain that at the time of this story, a battleship was THE most formidable navel war vessel in the world. It was three football fields long (longer than most skyscrapers are tall), weighed 50,000 tons and carried a crew of 1500 sailors. It also had nine 16″ guns that could fire a one-ton explosive “bullet” and blow up a target as small as a tank 23 miles away.
Two battleships assigned to the training squadron had been at sea on maneuvers in heavy weather for several days. Koch was serving on the lead battleship and was standing watch on the bridge as night fell. He recounts his experience.
“The visibility was extremely poor with patchy fog, so the captain remained on the bridge, keeping an eye on our navigation activities.”
“Shortly after dark, the lookout on the wing of the bridge reported, ‘Light, bearing on the starboard bow!’
“The captain called out, ‘Is it steady or moving astern?’
“The lookout replied, ‘Steady, captain,’ which meant that we were on a collision course with that source of light.
“The captain then called to the signalman, ‘Signal that ship: We are on a collision course. . . advise you change course 20 degrees.’
“Back came the signal from the other ship. ‘Advisable for you to change course 20 degrees!’
“The captain barked, ‘Send, I’m a captain. . . change course 20 degrees immediately.’
“‘I’m a seaman second-class,’ came the reply. ‘You had better change course 20 degrees!’”
“By this time, the captain was furious. He spat out, ‘Send, I am a battleship! Change course 20 degrees.’
“Back came the signal from the flashing light. . .’
“I am a lighthouse. . .”
All it takes to change a paradigm– or a belief– even the most firmly entrenched and universally agreed upon, is one new piece of “compelling” information.
Admittedly, with a belief that you and I have held on to as our dominant paradigm for 20, 30, 40 years or more, that may require some focused and consistent effort over time. But if the experts are correct and you can establish a new habit in 21 to 28 days. . . you’re always less than one month away from changing your life for the better forever.
So, how do you know what your beliefs are?
Look at your life right now. . .
That’s what you have believed up ’til now.
Don’t like what you’ve got?
Change your beliefs.
It’s the only way.
Think of it like this:
Your beliefs are your operating system, and exactly like the OS Whatever (DOS, Mac, Linux, Unix) on your computer, your beliefs organize and control all your human hardware and software, so everything works the way it’s supposed to.
Now, you’d be crazy to run your computer with software developed back in the 1960s or ’70s. (The computer in your cell phone is more powerful than any desktop was just 20 years ago.) And you’d be totally nuts to depend on an operating system designed by a five or six-year old “programmer” wouldn’t you?
But that’s exactly the kind of software you’re using right this minute to run your life. . .
YOU OS 1.0: Fundamental beliefs MADE UP in the mind of a little child– and most probably a disappointed, dissatisfied, discouraged, disheartened little “programmer” trying desperately to safely navigate the stormy seas of life and protect him or herself from pain.
If you’re anxious about what other people think of you. . .
If you’re afraid of failure and rejection. . .
If you have any of the FADWAS (Fear, Anger, Doubt, Worry, Anxiety, Sadness) or more importantly, if they have you. . .
If no matter what you do it’s never good enough or never enough. . .
Then it’s time to install a new operating system.
As soon as possible would be good. And this time, preferably make it a system designed by an authentic, intelligent, sincere and serious adult who knows, likes and trusts you. One who cares very deeply about you and is passionately committed to your life and success.
Know anybody that fits that description perfectly?
You are “The One”: The best one. . . and really you’re the only one qualified for the job.
Problem is: This one is NOT one of those “Do it yourself” deals. Self-help won’t work too well here, because the “self” itself is part of the problem. As Professor Einstein was quoted as saying:
“We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.”
Remember, our beliefs are habits of thought, so can you understand how those very same thoughts that formed our beliefs are neither willing nor able to un-make them?
When you’re working on developing and installing a new and improved Operating System– your fundamental beliefs about who and how you are, and the way life really is– self-help doesn’t work, because you and I are blind to the beliefs that limit us and stop us from living in 3D– as we Desire, Dream and Deserve.
We are battleships heading straight for a lighthouse.
Help– which has gotten a “bad rap” for many of us since childhood where it was mistakenly viewed as a sign of weakness (and has been negatively promoted as such by too many of the popular human potential gurus and their personal development workshops)- is absolutely what we need.
Help, in the form of new and more compelling information. (Again: “I am a lighthouse.”)
Help in the form of a new way of working directly with our beliefs that will shift unwanted, self-sabotaging beliefs to empowering beliefs that assure your success. . . fast, in a proven way that lasts.
What your mind believes you will achieve
– all ways and in all ways.
Thanks.
I appreciate you! John Milton Fogg is an acclaimed writer, editor, speaker, coach and author of the million-selling book, The Greatest Networker in the World. His free BeliefBusters Report shows you how to Build Self-Esteem, Stop Negative Thinking and Become Healthy, Wealthy and Happy at: http://BeliefBusters.com.Free WP Autoposter Plugins

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Life Coach Basics

Nov 19th, 2009 by newmoney

However good we are at managing our everyday lives, there are times when we all need a helping hand, and this is where the relatively new occupation of professional life coach training comes into play.

In the sports world, we often hear of coaches, coaching athletes and sportsmen and women, but ask most business people and the population about coaching, and they will not see the benefits. The top achievers in society rely on a life coach to achieve happiness.

If you do today what you did yesterday, then your tomorrow will be like today. If you really want changes in your life, and achieve happiness in any field of life, whether spiritual, professional or personal, a life coach can help you get there quicker and more easily.

How a life coach can serve you, is via there ability to encourage you and advise you about your destination. Because a life coach looks at things outside of the box, they can see obstacles and solutions to your problems and challenges, much more easily then you might see.

A life coach can help you if you feel that your occupation is heading nowhere or if a relationship has gone sour, and you need a new lease in life. This is where professional life coach training can really benefit you. With professional life coach training, you can find a long term vision, learn the steps necessary to get there, and get the motivation to commit till you achieve what you want.

A life coach is there to help you commit to what you want to achieve, whether this be a personal development goal or a material goal, professional life coach training can help you achieve more. The life coach also gives you added benefit that they are someone who keeps you on track. When you have someone like a life coach, that you promise to do the tasks necessary, that commitment alone of keeping to the promise, between each meeting is one which helps propel you to success.

Like in sports, the coach is there to motivate, and help you be your best. With professional life coach training, realize that each life coach has different abilities and skills. Some may be more skilled in motivating you to continue, while others can help you with skills necessary in your profession.

Broadly speaking, a life coach is simply that – a person who helps you on your path, through life. Most people in life simply float. Imagine the best athletes around the world. If they never had a coach, then they would simply float. It is hard to motivate ourselves enough in a negative world, to achieve positive results. A life coach can help you get direction; formulate a vision, that you want, and help you get there to excellence to achievement.

The question “How does a life coach change your life?” might be a better question than “What is a life coach?” because they can have a very real effect on how you live your life. You will need to be willing to take advice and learn how to make changes, but they can help you to come to terms with outdated modes of thinking and help you to move forwards towards new goals.

If you have a dream deep inside, maybe you don’t know what it looks like. A life coach, and with professional life coach training, you can get a clear picture of what it is that you want, and gave the guidance to achieve a life of bliss. Whether it is spiritual help, professional help, getting from poverty to prosperity or living your dream, a life coach and professional life coach training can make it reality for you. Where can you find a <a href="http://www.howtobecomealifecoach.info” rel=”nofollow”>life coach? Can <a href="http://www.howtobecomealifecoach.info” rel=”nofollow”>life coaching really help you succeed? These questions keep coming up, visit www.howtobecomealifecoach.info to find out how and who can help you reach your goals.

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